How to develop Emotional Intelligence

Develop Emotional Intelligence

Develop Emotional Intelligence

Develop Emotional Intelligence with Cards

You can develop emotional intelligence.

Do you find meaningful conversations difficult?

Have you ever been called heartless or cold hearted?

It may not be your desire to be labelled in this way but you could have traits in your personality that may make the label others have given you fair.

Wikipedia describes Emotional intelligence (EIas “the capability of individuals to recognize their own and other people’s emotions, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one’s goal(s).[1]

So if you find it difficult to understand what others are talking about when a conversation talks about feelings or desires it may just be that there is a disconnect in your heart at those moments and you are trying to answer questions related to values and desires with a cognitive process that happens in your head.

How can you develop emotional intelligence?

Developing emotional intelligence does not have to be hard. Using different language during conversations can often shift a cognitive conversation into a more emotional conversation. A good example of when you have had a more emotional conversation is when you are talking with your friend about something you love.

Sometimes we can find our selves disconnected from the heart due to some previous heart based trauma often after a relationship has broken down.

Short term this is protective of us, but if it becomes a long term condition it can cause problems in new relationships that could mean you are not able to stay in a loving relationship for extended amounts of time.

The cards in the pack shown above can help you to regain and further develop emotional intelligence.

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Emotional Intelligence Questions

Which Emotional Intelligence Questions should you ask?

Emotional Intelligence Questions – If you are new coach and are just starting to become familiar with emotional intelligence as a concept you may be wondering, how do I help my clients enhance their emotional intelligence?

Specific questions which engage the heart response, tend to get clients to drop out of their heads and see situations from a different perspective.

Emotional intelligence questions are about connecting to values and tend to evoke a more compassionate response or point of view.

Emotional intelligence questions will support your client to become more self compassionate and quite the over active head brain.

Emotional Intelligence Questions

Emotional Intelligence Questions

46 Emotional Intelligence Questions

Each pack of the Reveal Solutions emotional intelligence cards comes in it’s own hard plastic pack for safe transportation and easy storage.

The emotional intelligence cards are made out of a thick card similar to a business card and protected by a plastic coating on both sides to ensure a long life and many uses.

They are made in Australia and delivered via Australia post to any Australian address free of additional shipping costs.

If you live outside of Australia and would like to purchase these or any other cards we will need to confirm the cost of postage before you place your order.

I find that taking these cards to my clients coaching sessions helps to get a coaching session that may have hit a road block to get moving again.

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mBraining Flash Learning Cards

mBraining Flash Learning Cards

G’day everybody and welcome to this short video about the mBraining Flash Learning Cards. The mBraining Flash Learning Cards are a pack of 47 cards designed by Grant Soosalu in conjunction with Mark Deacon and Reb Veal from

They are now available in Australia to purchase to help consolidate the learning after a four day coach certification.

The cards come in colour coded sections to help make the learning easier and the also have a page number at the bottom of every card that allows for easy reference to the book so that you know specifically what the cards is referring to.

But also if you are reading the book to be able to go to the book and go to a card that corresponds to the section that you are reading, to get better clarity of what t is that you just read and to allow you to practice what it is that you just read.

Where are the mBraining Flash Learning Cards made?

They are made in Australia and the are sold under license and they are available at and they come in a plastic pack thats designed to hold the cards so that they are easily able to be stored and so they are safe when you use them to travel anywhere that you decide you need to take them.

mBraining Flash Learning Cards

They are good for new coaches that are going to mBraining coaching get togethers, with your fellow coaches where you are practicing and doing your practice sessions.

they are made out of a nice thick card that is similar to a business card and is coated on each side with a thin layer of film or plastic to give the strength and durability.

So if you are interested in the cards go to thats and click the shop button and you will be able to find the cards there, purchase them pay n PayPal and have them delivered anywhere in Australia , delivery is included in the price that you will find on line.

How are the mBraining Flash Learning Cards used?

Now to give you a bit of an idea of how the cards work, this particular card is a heart brain card and it has some information about the heart brain on there that allows you to , like i said earlier refer to page 77 of the book and i that card comes so dot points that enables you to understand what it is that the heart brain does or is responsible for.

For example here, it’s got more than around 10 dotpoints and some of the include

  • peace and
  • forgiveness
  • joy and
  • trust
  • connection
  • love generosity
  • emotional truth and
  • wisdom and
  • passion

So this card allows you to go through that process of learning what it is that heart brin does and it helps you to consolidate the learning from your coaching course.

It helps you to practice with fellow coaches when you get together in your coaching sessions.

On the other side of the card we have the prompt question, so whether you are prompting yourself or having someone else prompt you, you can look at the card and ask yourself what are the core mBraining competencies and the the question down the bottom is list some balanced heart brain core competencies.

So by learning via the flash learning cards – by receiving the question whether its somebody else asking you or you asking yourself, you could give yourself an opportunity to learn those answer, like i said on the back of the card and understand better and absorb better the information that you picked up at the coach certification.

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mBraining Coaching Questions

Which mBraining Coaching Questions should I ask?

If you are a new mBIT Coach you may be still be a little unsure if you are asking the right mBraining Coaching Questions.

Although you may not be aware of it, you have already been engaging your clients 3 brains during coaching.

Incase you have been feeling a little rough about the way you are taking your clients up the mBIT roadmap you may find it useful to grab a pack of mBraining Coaching Cards.

Each pack contains 47 cards that were designed by Reveal Solutions founders Mark Deacon and Reb Veal in consultation with Grant Soosalu.

Engaging the multiple brains, with mBraining Coaching Questions

mBraining Coaching Questions

The mBraining Coaching Questions in this pack come in four colour coded categories. There 11 Red cards which engage the heart, 11 Blue cards that engage the head, 11 Olive cards that engage the gut, and 12 teal cards that are used to add wisdom to difficult situations.

There is also a foundational sequence card and an mBIT roadmap card. The cards are manufactured in Australia under license from using plastic coat business card paper and they come in a plastic box designed for safe storage.

Get your pack of mBraining Coaching Questions HERE. Delivery is included in the cost if you live in Australia. Please send me an email by clicking the button below if you live overseas and I will confirm the cost for international mail before you make your purchase.

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mBraining Book – Using Your Multiple Brains to do Cool Stuff!

mBraining Book – Using your multiple brains to do cool stuff.

mbraining book

mbraining book

mBraining Book. mBraining was researched and written by Marvin Oka and Grant Soosalu the co-founders of the new coaching modality of mBIT (multiple brain integration techniques. GET 10% OFF your copy by simply typing 10% into the coupon section of your shopping basket before you checkout. For a limited time only!


The new field of mBIT brings together what ancient wisdom traditions have been saying for thousands of years, with the latest findings from neuroscience, with practical applications for wise living.

Comprising of nine chapters, mBraining takes you on a wonderful journey of discovery, of what lies beneath the external layers of our existence.

By allowing you to truly connect with the intelligence of the Heart, Gut and Head Brains beyond the superficial level, you will gain a real insight into what has been making you tick all these years, and from where you can begin to affect change in your life.

Why should you get a copy of the mBraining Book?

Learning to put into practice what mBraining teaches with an mBraining Coach will help you to release trauma that you have inherited from your ancestors without being aware.

mbraining helps you remove negative emotions that you have picked up along the way through the years from the moment of conception to your birth and beyond.

The mBraining book has spawned a number of courses that you can attend to guide you gently on this exploration of self. These courses are being run internationally as well as locally

mBraining Courses

  • evolve your world two day experience
  • the 4 day coach certification
  • the master coach certification
  • trainers training and master trainers training.

There are also courses available for corporate applications.

The mBraining Book is available for purchase by clicking here. Get your copy today.

Interested in mBIT Coaching. Bill Gasiamis is a mBIT Trainer and Master Coach. Click to here to learn more about Bill

Grow Model Questions

Grow model questions in a pack.

Grow Model Questions

With 40 new Grow model questions, The Reveal Solutions intermediate grow coaching cards, are the second in a series of 3 different packs of grow coaching cards .

This pack of 48 cards with 40 unique questions can be purchased as a single pack or as part of a special bulk order that includes the introduction to grow coaching cards and the advanced grow coaching cards.

When you purchase all three packs together you save $33.75 and you get a total of 120 individual grow model questions to take your coaching session to the next level. Purchase your pack HERE.

40 Grow Model Questions in each pack.

The cards are divided into 4 categories including

  • 10 Goal Questions,
  • 10 Reality Questions,
  • 10 Options Questions and
  • 10 Way Forward Questions,

These particular cards are made in Australia on licence from from

They are manufactured from high quality card, coated in plastic on both sides that will resist finger prints and stains and to ensure a long life. They arrive in a plastic box designed for easy storage.

The cards have been sold in more than 50 countries across the planet for more than 5 years now and have just become available for the first time in Australia and the Asia pacific region, through

You may also like the Emotional Intelligence Cards used to help your clients connect with their emotions and make those breakthroughs that can enhance a life and heal emotional wounds from long ago.

If you are purchasing any of the reveal more cards in Australia, postage in included in the price. For international orders please contact me via the link below to get a quote for delivery to the country in which you are based.

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