How to develop Emotional Intelligence

Develop Emotional Intelligence

Develop Emotional Intelligence

Develop Emotional Intelligence with Cards

You can develop emotional intelligence.

Do you find meaningful conversations difficult?

Have you ever been called heartless or cold hearted?

It may not be your desire to be labelled in this way but you could have traits in your personality that may make the label others have given you fair.

Wikipedia describes Emotional intelligence (EIas “the capability of individuals to recognize their own and other people’s emotions, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one’s goal(s).[1]

So if you find it difficult to understand what others are talking about when a conversation talks about feelings or desires it may just be that there is a disconnect in your heart at those moments and you are trying to answer questions related to values and desires with a cognitive process that happens in your head.

How can you develop emotional intelligence?

Developing emotional intelligence does not have to be hard. Using different language during conversations can often shift a cognitive conversation into a more emotional conversation. A good example of when you have had a more emotional conversation is when you are talking with your friend about something you love.

Sometimes we can find our selves disconnected from the heart due to some previous heart based trauma often after a relationship has broken down.

Short term this is protective of us, but if it becomes a long term condition it can cause problems in new relationships that could mean you are not able to stay in a loving relationship for extended amounts of time.

The cards in the pack shown above can help you to regain and further develop emotional intelligence.

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Emotional Intelligence Questions

Which Emotional Intelligence Questions should you ask?

Emotional Intelligence Questions – If you are new coach and are just starting to become familiar with emotional intelligence as a concept you may be wondering, how do I help my clients enhance their emotional intelligence?

Specific questions which engage the heart response, tend to get clients to drop out of their heads and see situations from a different perspective.

Emotional intelligence questions are about connecting to values and tend to evoke a more compassionate response or point of view.

Emotional intelligence questions will support your client to become more self compassionate and quite the over active head brain.

Emotional Intelligence Questions

Emotional Intelligence Questions

46 Emotional Intelligence Questions

Each pack of the Reveal Solutions emotional intelligence cards comes in it’s own hard plastic pack for safe transportation and easy storage.

The emotional intelligence cards are made out of a thick card similar to a business card and protected by a plastic coating on both sides to ensure a long life and many uses.

They are made in Australia and delivered via Australia post to any Australian address free of additional shipping costs.

If you live outside of Australia and would like to purchase these or any other cards we will need to confirm the cost of postage before you place your order.

I find that taking these cards to my clients coaching sessions helps to get a coaching session that may have hit a road block to get moving again.

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Developing Emotional Intelligence Cards

Developing Emotional Intelligence Cards.

Emotional Intelligence Cards

Emotional Intelligence Cards

Welcome to this short video that introduces the Reveal More Emotional Intelligence Cards.

What’s been recognised for many years is that a persons level of emotional intelligence has a far greater impact of their success and that of the team or organisation they are in, than their level of competence or intellect alone.

Our ability to make and maintain successful relationships is the bedrock of collaborative working and therefor the modern workplace.

Without sound relationships we are an island and our best efforts will only lead to limited success. that relies on short term transactional relationships

What happens if we develop our Emotional Intelligence (EI)?

Conflict reduces, discretionary effort is released, purpose and achievement are realised, productivity increases business growth can be achieved and customer satisfaction will increase too.

The great news is, the Emotional Intelligence Cards are easy to use.

The cards are based on Daniel Goldman’s four box EI model. The purpose of the emotional intelligence cards is to stimulate reflection and conversation.

We can only develop our emotional intelligence through a combination of quality introspection and also focusing on others.

The cards can be used in a number of ways. To coach others of EI for teams to better understand each other or perhaps for self development of an individual manager or leader.

What does each deck of Emotional Intelligence Cards Contain?

The deck contains 52 cards. 12 cards in each of the four colour coded segments corresponding to Goldman’s model. Each card has a question and a statement to explain the purpose of that question and a tip. That’s three pieces of developmental information on each card.

There is also a descriptor card for each segment to further assist the user with further understanding of Goldman’s EI model.

There is also a full colour graphic card  showing the model often used in many EI courses.

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